Positioning Hands

Alright embalmers, let’s talk hands; because whether we like it or not, "They’re one of the first things families notice when approaching a casket."

We all obsess (rightfully so) over mouth closure; but hands deserve that same level of respect. They’re front and center, quietly telling a story about care, preparation, and professionalism. When they’re done well, no one says a word. When they’re done poorly? Everyone notices!

Traditionally, hands are displayed crossed at the lower abdomen, or higher, depending on regional custom; but we’ve all had those cases where the hands just don’t want to cooperate. Overly wrinkled skin, dehydration, poor distribution, or those dreaded abnormal indentations from positioning can turn a clean case into a last-minute scramble. Sometimes, despite our best intentions, the hands simply need to be placed at the side because the appearance just isn’t there.

I’ll be the first to admit, I’ve created wrist indentations that just couldn't be removed with feature builder or post embalming massages. Early on, I tied wrists together to achieve that perfect cross. I stepped back, admired my work… and later that week the family walked in with a ¾-sleeve suit. Panic! Suddenly I’m buying a watch or bracelets to cover an indentation I caused. Lesson learned the hard way.

Here’s the truth: cuffs and ties used for positioning can absolutely sabotage your final appearance if they’re not applied correctly. Too tight, too rigid, or left in place too long and the skin remembers. The fix? Simple, effective, and experience-tested:

• Cotton is your friend. Placing cotton between the wrists and positioning cuffs cushions the pressure and eliminates those harsh indentations.
• Wedge-style body positioners, especially the ones from Frigid Fluid—are game changers! They support the hands naturally, hold them exactly where you place them, and don’t fight you during or after embalming. Best of all, they help the hands stay put without leaving evidence behind. They also allow for drainage of fluid from the hands when someone has edema in them. Perfect for this cause!

And let’s not forget the fundamentals. Hands aren’t just about position, they’re about presentation! Take the time to massage them. Encourage good fluid distribution. Aim for healthy color in the nail beds and smooth, hydrated skin. Clear polish elevates a man's hands tremendously; and clean nails is a part of the embalming process. Never forget that.  A well-treated hand looks peaceful, natural, and cared for; and families notice that, even if they can’t quite explain why.

Bottom line: hands are a focal point. Treat them like one. Position thoughtfully, cushion smartly, use the right tools, and never underestimate how much a small detail can matter in the final presentation.

Try the wedge body positioners from Frigid, add a little cotton under your cuffs, and watch your results go from admirable to yourself, to families saying, "Oh wow!  Their hands and nails look so good!"